It's been a while.
A lot has happened since the last time I sat down
to write.
A whole hell of a lot...
On both a personal and societal basis. Nevertheless, change is good.
Ummm... but it would be a little disingenuous of me if I didn't also say
that not all change feels good. As a matter of fact, some of it can be downright disheartening and
depressing if you don't view it from the proper
perspective.
However, for now I'll just stick with Societal
Change.
The personal changes I've experienced since my last entry are an entry in and of themselves.
In my humble opinion the age old tactics of sit-ins and boycotts alone don't
work in the 21st century. This is a digital age. This is a consumer driven era.
Only economic empowerment and an evening of the economic landscape will inspire
change. Wu-Tang said it best......C.R.E.A.M (For the uninitiated: Cash Rules
Everything Around Me). Sadly, in today's society he who has the money makes the
rules. We no longer live in a world where resources are reasonably distributed.
Notice I said reasonably and not equally. As long as individuals have a
Caste-like mindset and structure to their society, resources will never be
equally distributed:
Caste: noun, (kast) - each of the hereditary classes
of Hindu society, distinguished by relative degrees of ritual purity or
pollution and of Social Status.
The more you know.
The sit-ins of the sixties were to bring
awareness to the plight of blacks being denied their civil rights. We no longer
need that. Everyone knows that racism exists, some just choose to ignore it
because it does not directly affect them or the ones that they love.
Bringing attention to and promoting
awareness of civil rights violations and white nationalist atrocities while
necessary is still not enough. A plan of action and the proper leadership in
our communities is the only way to make effective and lasting societal change.
Otherwise we're just gonna be doing what we've been doing since the U.S. was
first colonized. I mean let some folks tell it, we chose this way of life anyway though so......
Where's my Starbucks? Oh hell?! We're boycotting? Again?! What's the hashtag?
That's cool.
I don't drink that ish anyway.
But I digress.....
Ripples.
Got it.
You drop a pebble in a pond and what
happens? The area around where the pebble was dropped is immediately disrupted.
A shift occurs. A ripple is created. Nevertheless, after a while everything
returns to normal. Like nothing ever happened. After a while, you may even
forget where the pebble was dropped in the pond. Hell, at some point, you may
even forget you dropped a pebble in said pond in the first place. You drop a
rock in the pond. Same result. Bigger splash but in the end... same result.
Drop a boulder in the pond .... same result.
Now......
What happens when it rains on the same
pond. There's a greater effect on the pond. More ripples. More water. A greater
disturbance. The structure of the pond has changed and has improved the
ecosystem that draws from it.
Organization and structured movement is
needed to effect lasting change. A sit-in here and a march there is not going
to accomplish that. Unfortunately, the generation following Dr. King and all
the countless other Civil Rights activists of his era straight dropped ball.
Too busy worrying about making their hair appointments and keeping their side
chicks happy I guess. Coordinated actions, properly structured organizations
and the proper alliances are the ways to promote and obtain the sort of
Societal change that is long overdue for People of Color in this country.
I'm a Contextualist meaning that I
believe that everything has a place in the world as long as it remains in its
proper context. The Circle of Life or a geographical area's ecosystem for
example. However, first and foremost I am a man of God and Servant of the Most
High. In His word it states that there is a time and place for everything under
the sun. Now, I understand that one may think I lead a contradictory lifestyle
in the sense based on their belief that you can't believe that everything is
permitted as long as it's in the right context because context is a matter of
perspective. However, I disagree.
Simply because I believe the following:
Context is a necessary component of
structure. Structure promotes and leads to order (The God I serve is a God of
Order). Order is the basis of Stability. Stability is the basis for
Consistency. Consistency is the major component of Trust. Trust is the
foundation of Love.
As one my heroes so eloquently said:
"Hate begets hate; violence begets
violence; toughness begets a greater toughness. ... Returning violence for
violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid
of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate
cannot drive out hate; only love can do that." - The Late Great Reverend Martin Luther King
Jr
Look at it this way.... You can't build
a house with only a blueprint but without having laid a solid foundation.
Well....I mean you can but don't invite me over because I'm not putting myself
in a compromising situation like that. Over there drinking tea with you and a
damn wall falls or the roof caves in. Nope....I'll pass. Sorry (not sorry).
Yes, please understand that only organized resistance brings about
lasting change. All other resistance is merely temporary and easily dispelled.
For instance, take the Parkland Shooting
Survivors. Theirs’s is the first movement against the senseless gun violence
that has been occurring in this country for decades that I have seen in my
lifetime that I believe has an actual chance to affect lasting change. Why?
Because they are organized, structured, determined, focused, disciplined,
motivated, well-funded, young and predominately white or non-black. Theirs’s is
the ultimate example of when differences are set aside for acquisition of a
common goal. One that makes everyone better, not just their particular group or
organization.
Black folks still trying to climb out of
the barrel.
……And yet as I write this, another
“misunderstood” white boy carries out another mass shooting in my hometown of
Nashville, TN. My thoughts and prayers are with the victims and the families of
said victims. Sadly, we are having far too many instances of these lone wolf
domestic terrorist attacks (Let’s just call a spade a spade, shall we.) with
little to no genuine effort to corral or even stop them. Possibly because the
demographic that seems most responsible for these acts has turned a blind eye
to them. Wonder how long it’s going to take for the media and law enforcement
officials to label him mentally unstable and good kid who has lost his way (Let
me answer that one for you…. as I type this). I mean come on, let’s be honest
the media narrative and borderline bias for Caucasian perpetrators of some
pretty heinous acts is pretty “soft” to say the least. Had the shooter been
non-black they would have contributed it to some form of extreme terrorism and
heaven forbid the guy had been of Muslim decent.
My bad…. examples. *stay focused*.
The #MeTooMovement. Initially started by
an African-American woman but seemed to only gain traction after individuals
that came from a totally different demographic joined the fight. Not throwing
shade…just stating facts. This movement is serving notice to people that the
old antiquated ways in which women have been viewed and treated for as far back
as anyone can remember will not be tolerated any longer by the fairer sex. A
movement that is seriously overdue not only in this country but the world over and
I’m here for it. Why? Yet again because they are organized, structured,
determined, focused, disciplined, motivated, well-funded, young and
predominately white or non-black. I just hope that we can stay focused on
actual victims of Sexual Harassment and Abuse and exclude those that just are
upset because the thirst trap landed them a cat with weak cunnilingus game.
Not throwing shade…. just stating facts.
The “War” on “Opioid Crisis” in America.
Notice the quotes. Now granted, it is a problem. A serious one. However, it’s
not a new one. Hell, just ask anyone that resided of South Central Los Angeles
oh say between 1980 and 1990. The so-called War on Drugs had a completely
different narrative than the one that exists today…. but then again, those
suffering collateral damage from the newest War look a little different too.
Not throwing shade…just stating facts.
There’s that word again …Facts.
Actual Facts though…. not alternative
ones.
Folks are so sensitive and in their
feeling these days that just stating obvious facts upsets some people’s brittle
spirits and may even get you branded as anti-social or something considerably
worse (ex. Google: Black Identity Extremist).
Unfortunately, society is experiencing a
seriously rapid decline in people’s Emotional IQ. I mean the standard IQ of the
average America was already questionable anyway. Folks tend to think to they
are a lot smarter than they actually are and have little to no common sense
these days. Yet with the explosion of Social Media Platforms like Facebook and
Twitter, folks of marginal intelligence now have a platform to put their
ignorance on full display. Discretion is a term that does not seem to apply to
anymore. Gone are the days of “if you don’t have something nice to say, don’t
say anything at all” or “Better to let people think you’re dumb as hell than to
open your mouth and remove all doubt (Something like that). People are
perfectly content in their ignorance and that to this writer is some concerning
sh*t. People nowadays act like if they don’t acknowledge how bogus and disrespectful
something they do is, that that exempts them from reaping what they’ve sewn.
Just because you don’t acknowledge that you took a swing at me doesn’t mean you
can’t and/ or won’t get your ass kicked. You will….. Just in case you needed
confirmation.
The current resident of 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue has a certain
segment of the population in the Matrix. Creating their own reality. The Wachowski
Brothers were ahead of their time. Those of you that remember when that movie
first dropped how radical a concept “Augmented Reality” was. Now we’re living
it….every single day. Been living it actually. Only difference between then and
now is that we now have daily reminders via Social Media. Your timeline is a
daily reminder of just how detached people have become from humanity and reality. People’s
lack of discretion and need for constant affirmation and attention from people
they do not know has caused a shift in people’s perspective on what is or is
not acceptable social behavior. Thanks, Mark Zuckerberg. No seriously….I
appreciate that dude. He gave people the outlet to be themselves ..... for better or
worse. Some folks call Facebook, "Fakebook". I actually disagree with that. People’s true nature is on full
display when they can’t suffer any immediate consequences for their actions. For example…. How
many people on the Book would actually spew some of the hateful and vitriolic
stuff they say if they knew it would be followed by a backhand or a roundhouse
kick to the face. If I had to venture a guess…not very many. SO…..guess what
they do? Become Facebook Gangsters ….. And I know quite a few Facebook OGs. Ahh
yes! Those folks that talk cash sh*t on
the Interwebs but are quiet as Church Mice when a real OG run up on ‘em in their apartment complex parking lot. You
can occasionally peep that on your timeline too (…..and I ain’t gonna lie folks, that
stuff is highly entertaining). All of the aforementioned factors and behaviors can distinctly be traced to one’s Emotional IQ. Simply put, when you know better
you tend to do better. Now ….. There are those individuals out there that are
straight assholes.
Act accordingly.
Society is experiencing a shift in
consciousness. The Old Guard is being served notice that the way things have
been done in the past is played and “Time’s Up”. The Universe reacts according
to energy transfer. What you put out you typically get back in some form or
fashion. With that being said you have to understand that the Universe will
always hold you accountable for your actions. Karma is debt that never goes
unpaid. You reap what you sow in this life. Which is why you must try to remain
on its good side. Why?
Simply because Karma is not a
respecter of persons.
Everybody and anybody can get it.
Karma doesn’t care about your schedule.
Karma does not need an invitation. Karma is persistent…..very persistent. Nerve wrackingly so. Karma will wait in the cut right up until you think you got away
with it. Then that mofo shows up with receipts, dates, times and
dares you to act like you don’t remember what you did. “Yeah,
mofo that was you”….with a smirk. You have no choice but to own that sh*t.
Otherwise, Karma is gonna pitch a tent and forward their mail to your address
until you do. Trust me….Karma has been
my houseguest a few times. I try to keep her visits short though. Which is why
I suggest that you go ahead and own your Karma. Hell, you know you got it
coming anyway. May as well be proactive. I can tell you from experience that
being proactive and getting in front of what’s coming is a lot better than
having to do damage control. Unless your Karma resembles a Bus or a Train. Umm
yeah….you may want to just go ahead wait for the aftermath then put your big boy/ girl
pants on. Karma’s arrival isn’t all bad though. We just tend to let the guilt
that comes along with our indiscretions give Bad Karma more power than it
actually has. Sometimes all of the good you put out in the universe comes back
to you too. Maybe not directly from where you’ve sown good seed but from
another source. Just accept it and remain humble. For the uninitiated, Humility will open the doors that arrogance gets slammed in your face.
Ripples…...
Societal Change.
What type of impact are
you making in your environment? Are you a Change Agent trying to make the world
around you better? Or are you that individual trying to sow divisiveness by
building walls between your fellow man/ woman both figuratively and literally.
Your answer to that question determines your Karma. Everyone that has EVER
sought to divide people and cause chaos or disorder ends up broken, regretful
and remorseful. It may take a while for those that you’ve hurt to see you reap
what you’ve sown (HOWEVER as of late, Karma has been out here straight serving
cats instantly….on sight!) but that bill always comes due and those that you
have cause any sort of pain of discomfort will get to watch your demise.
Especially those servants of the Most High. He promised it to those that follow
and serve Him:
“Vengeance
is Mine, I will repay.” says the Lord – Romans 12:19
I mean not that we would take any pleasure
in that.
Ok…... maybe just a little.
Sadly, it has been my experience that people
are a lot faster to take something or accept something from someone than they
are to give anything to anyone. In today’s society, there is unfortunately less
interest in being benevolent. The
reasons vary….
Maybe you have been burned one too many times
trying to help the next man. Maybe you have taken time out of your schedule to
assist someone yet when it comes time to reciprocate, the person you provided
aide to comes up with one hundred and one reasons why they can’t. Maybe you gave
someone your last because they said they truly needed your help with a solemn
promise to pay you back with interest, only for you to still be waiting on them
to pay you back (Meanwhile, you see ‘em poppin’ bottles on The Gram). Maybe …. just
maybe you stood up and defended someone’s honor only to have that very person
talk behind you back……while stabbing you in it. There are any number of reasons
why individuals may have trust issues and have basically decided fixing the
ills of society is the next man’s/ woman’s problem because of how the world has
treated them. Trust me I struggle with that daily. To see people of less than
moral character on the “come up”, while my kindness is taken for weakness can
be maddening at times. Nevertheless, it’s not my job to judge anyone. In the
grand scheme of things, people are only going to do what’s best for them. After
all, the first rule of survival is self-preservation. If you don’t look out for
yourself, no one else will. The key is ensuring that you “doing you” doesn’t
complicate or deteriorates anyone else’s quality of life. Make sure that your
ripple – the impact you have on the world around you – is one that transmits
positive vibes. Unless you’ve been under a rock for the last twenty-four months,
I’m sure you’ll agree that we could use a lot more of that. Spread love, not
hate. Sow good seed, reap a bountiful harvest.
The moral of the story, make sure you remain
on the good side of Karma. Always strive to make a positive impact on the
environment you inhabit. Make sure that the energy that you expend not only
furthers your own individual agenda, but it also serves the greater good of
those impacted by said agenda…...a.k.a the rest of us. I leave you with some of
the last words of wisdom bestowed upon me by my father:
The mark of a mature and truly grounded
individual is that they tend to leave any environment or any situation better for
them having been a part of it.
If you’re going to be a part of someone’s
life, make sure that you add value to it. If you want to make the world a
better place, fully commit to becoming a better man.
One person alone can’t change the world.
They can only provide the spark. However, with the collective effort of likeminded
individuals positively influenced to make the world around them better…. there is
no limit to the amount of good they can do in this world.
Like rain drop ripples in a pond.






